The loss of a loved one can be one of the greatest challenges in life. Whether you lose a loved one or a friend, there is a period of profound sadness and grief when such an event occurs. Learning how to connect with the World of Spirits where loved ones have moved on to after dying, is a life changing experience.
When a person’s body has experienced what we term death, there is that essential part of them, the soul, which immediately moves on to another place of existence. They are met by loved ones who have passed prior and an assortment of caring Spirit Guides and angels. There is a period of orientation where they “review” their lifetime on earth and the lessons hopefully learned. Once acclimated to their new state of being, they are able to communicate with those left behind.
In cases where the loss of a loved one was, for example, a spouse, there can be intense loneliness and concern for the future which is emotionally devastating. The loss of a parent or child in any circumstance can bring on years of unrelenting grief and pain. While grief is a normal and usually healthy response to loss, it can become unhealthy and counterproductive if it persists too long. The truth is, holding on to these emotions for years does nothing to change what has happened and only serves to hold back those still living. Our loved ones do not wish us to live in this state of sad limbo forever. They are the first ones to encourage those still living to let go and know that their loved one is okay and living a beautiful existence not so far removed from our own.
My sister who is not what one would term, highly religious or spiritual could not come to terms with our mother’s passing. She couldn’t wrap her mind around the fact that someone survives the death experience to go onto another plane of existence. Then she had a dream. In this realistic dream our mother telephoned her and they had a conversation. My sister asked her if she was okay and our mother replied she was still getting to know others who were there. There wasn’t much more to it. Needless to say, my sister was deeply shaken by the experience. I could have told her that a dream is one of the most common ways a loved one will try to communicate. In a mind-set where one does not believe in life after death, or anything of a spiritual nature, the deceased have one heck of a time trying to get a message across. Prior to this happening, I doubt she would have believed me if I had tried to explain this phenomenon to her. Now, she’s a believer.
Mediumship and Spirit communication provides a tool to help one come to terms with loss in a positive manner. Understanding that our loved one truly lives on, albeit in another state of being, helps to alleviate grief and can also help soothe guilt or other feelings of unfinished business. Talking with them again, can bring about the needed healing. As a teacher for Spirit Communication, I have spent years witnessing the truth of this fact.
For twenty years now, I have taught others to how to connect to relatives, friends and loved ones. Is this something you would like to learn how to do? Take a look at the powerful workshop I am holding in Sedona, Arizona, in June to teach others how easy it is to communicate with loved ones who have crossed over or who wish to become a Certified Medium. This is a rare event as I won’t be teaching in the southwest anytime again soon. Anyone who attends will receive a certificate of completion and also receives the 250 page Spirit Communication Handbook which, upon completion, will award Certification!
Carol Nicholson, Certified Medium
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Learn to Heal from Grief by Communicating with Loved Ones Who Have Died